OMG, I haven’t updated in a month!!! It has been quite a hectic last few weeks with the holiday season. Hope everyone enjoyed it with family. And now it’s 2016!!! How the heck did that happen?! Anyhoo, here are my resolutions for this year.
- Try to be off the grid more!
Is that possible in 2016? Yes and no. For me it means to check Facebook less. I am really aiming to not be the parent that has their head buried in their phone while their child is happily playing independently. While I still want my children to learn to play independently, I still want to observe the little quirks that make them unique. If that at all makes sense to any of you. The goal is just to stay present in the moments and take it all in. However, you’ll still find me taking a few videos or photos for Instagram.
- Mom’s Night Out!!!
The one thing I miss about SF are the mom’s I met while there. While I have mom friends here, we rarely were ever away from the kids. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but it’s also difficult to have a very meaningful conversation especially now that our children are walking. It’s usually a quick chat about a topic for 2 minutes before our children wander away from each other. So I am trying to organize a monthly mom’s night out; away from the kids, away from the husbands so that we can reconnect as women over cocktails and food. The first one went really well. I just need to plan that second one.
- Be more active!
Since moving back to the DC suburbs, it is really really easy to fall into that sedentary lifestyle–just sit on the couch or park bench and watch the kids play. There’s just something culturally different between the East and West Coasts and our views on activity. While I still play soccer, that’s not nearly enough to what I was doing in SF. Granted the weather is a lot warmer and nicer there, that’s still not an excuse to not be outdoors and enjoying life. So I’ve been taking advantage of the wetland preserve a mile away, which my son loves. I have a zoo membership this year, which both kids absolutely love doing. And we’ve gone to museums, which thankfully are mostly free here in DC. We still walk to our local playgrounds. But it’s nice to go out on a hike or walk, especially now Sammy just wants to walk all over the place (forget about baby wearing or stroller walking).
- Take pictures!
I still primarily use my iPhone to take pictures, but this year I really want to start using my DSLR more. I used it a lot during my son’s first years of life, but I just haven’t done so with my daughter. I always end up forgetting to bring it, but more often than not I’m just lazy about taking pictures. This year it will change, even though I haven’t used it yet this year!!! But we have some amazing trips (both with and without kids!) planned this year, so it will definitely encourage me to pull it out and use it more.
So those are my resolutions that I hope to keep up this year. I feel like it won’t be difficult, and I don’t want to say kids are the excuse. What are your resolutions this year?