We are in the midst of a Wonder Week, and while it isn’t so bad as when Oliver went through his, it leaves me really tired. On top of that there’s just the daily duties like laundry to do. Baby wearing is helpful for a lot of parents out there. While I don’t mind wearing Sammy, she does not sleep if there’s a lot of bending over, like picking up toys.
I felt bad wearing her and eating because she would be covered in crumbs. But now that she is bigger, she can fit in the Ergo. So I use the hood to cover her while I eat. Haha, but seriously it works! When she was smaller I used the Boba wrap and a Maya ring sling, which definitely did not have anything to protect her pretty head from crumbs!
Other times, she only falls asleep when I hold her. And then I am held hostage and only hope that the remote control to the TV and my fully charged iPhone are within arms length. Any unnecessary movement will wake up Sammy, and then all bets are off.
Our night sleeps have now gone from 7-8 hours to 5 hours, which is nothing to complain about compared to others. But when you are used to a good stretch of sleep, it throws you for a loop. If you haven’t invested in coffee stock, you should totally look into it cause that’s what gets me through the mornings.
Ahhh, the mommy life. One day it will get better, I know it.
P.S. Did I mention we are moving across the country next month? No packing being done by this mama!!!
We are a generation that tends to read and learn in preparation for anything, and being a first time parent is no exception to that rule. I think a lot of that has to do with the fact that families (in the Western World at least) are more nuclear families, either by choice or because of other circumstances like work (which is our case). And because of that child rearing isn’t learned through extended family members. Thank goodness for the internet and books!
A few of our friends are pregnant with their first child, and I have been asked for recommendations for their respective baby registries. The one book that both my husband and I give a ringing endorsement for and highly recommend they put on their registry is The Wonder Weeks. It is written by two Dutch psychologists and the book is based on psychological research (that has been empirically tested; SCIENCE!).
Why we love this book above all others? It’s based on science, it isn’t patronizing, and, for the most part, spot on regarding our son’s mental development. I think my husband loves it more because it also provides activities parents can do with their child to help them through each developmental leap.
The book was recommended to us by other friends, and now we are paying it forward to future parents out there. Go get it! You can get the app, which is a great succinct version of the book. But if you want to be completely thorough I highly suggest you order the book from Amazon. You don’t have to read the book in one go either. You can just read the chapter when your kid is about to enter their next developmental leap. And if you sign up for their e-mail alerts, they will e-mail you a week before they are entering a leap to remind you to read up.